I have seen a lot of people condemn long courtship because they believe it can lead to fornication, frustration etc. In fact I almost believed that it's not possible to court for over two years without fornicating. But one day, I was sitting in a program somewhere listening to a minister, and the minister said that he courted with his wife for six years before they eventually got married. That caught my attention, he further talked of various challenges and issues he had to PATIENTLY work on and solve with his spouse before marriage. He took time to study and build his spouse to his taste before the union. Somebody said that he has grace and not everyone will have that kind of grace to court for six years without sinning. I began to wonder, is there a grace for long courtship? The fact is no. What the man has was focus and discipline. Courtship is very important to marriages, it's a...